We
are taught to not be ourselves from the time Manifestation Miracle Review we are very young. What
we must do when we become adults is say what we want. When you want
to say no, then say it and when you want to say yes, say that as
well. You have the right to say whatever you want. Of course, there
are different ways to say the same thing, but the important point is
to be honest with yourself about what you truly desire. When you were
a young child, you said yes and no without hesitation. Saying yes
didn't cause you too much trouble, but as soon as you learned to say
no, you ardently began to state your objections to all limitations
that were being placed on you.
How
wonderful you felt when you discovered you could say no. The world
was yours. Everything was going to be your way, exactly how you
wished. What could be better? All your little life people had been
telling you no and now you had joined the no club. You could tell
them no. However, your joy was short-lived. You listened to others
when they said no, but the same result was not achieved when you said
no back. In fact, quite the opposite happened.
When
you said no, your mother and father got angry. You might have tried a
few more times to tell them no, but after awhile you stopped. That
was when you became disconnected with your feelings; you couldn't say
no, so why bother? You began to do what others wanted you to do, not
what you wanted. After a while you stopped even thinking about what
you truly wanted, no less trying to achieve it. Then came the teenage
years, when your desires began to re-surface and the choice was
before you to continue to do what your parents and the world expected
of you, to follow your friends or to do what you wanted. Almost all
of us go a little wild in our teenage years, the degree being
determined by how repressed we have been and our individual
personalities.
It's
the time of our lives when we have the opportunity to become unique
beings or to follow the crowd. Those of us who choose individuality
will be loners and those who follow others will have the approval of
their peers and perhaps their family. The rewards of approval are
diminished, however, by the separation we have from ourselves when we
turn ourselves over to the crowd. The loneliness of those who choose
to go their own way is lessened by the feelings of fulfillment that
being connected to one's self affords.It's our responsibility as
adults to create our own beliefs. We learn the ideas of our parents
and teachers when we are children and when we approach adulthood we
begin to create our own truth. The teenage years are the testing
grounds and the years following are the proving grounds.
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